4. You put too much pressure on yourself
In your golden years, you might deal with a lot of negative thoughts about yourself that will make it hard to attract the love you actually deserve.
“You could be putting additional burdens on yourself by focusing on all your undesirable personality traits or threading over the emptiness that has grown in you after each and every unsuccessful date,” Thomas says.
“If you are one of those people, it’s time to accept the truth and let go of the troubling emotions,” he adds.
