3. Everything your partner does irritates you
It can be quite overwhelming to live with a person that annoys you all the time. While most therapists agree that love or the lack of it has nothing to do with this, you might be tempted to think “Do I still love him/her?” The plain fact is that dull days can destroy even strong marriages.
“A very subversive sign that marriage counseling may be a good idea is if a person starts feeling resentful towards their partner,” says Leeth. But resentment can be tricky to identify. “Resentment creeps in very slowly. A sign that it may be seeping in is if you start getting annoyed easily with your partner,” he says.