7. You never fight
There’s no such thing as a perfect relationship. “Believe it or not, it’s a better sign when you are fighting with your spouse than when you’re cutting them off or shutting down. When you fight, it’s still a sign of engagement,” says therapist Lauren Cook. If you never fight with your partner, it could be quite concerning, because it translates to lack of care about the relationship.
“When people become indifferent about a relationship, there are reasons that underlie that, and those issues need to be addressed if the relationship is going to survive and thrive,” says Robert Weiss, LCSW. Indifference is definitely the number one enemy of love and passion.